Are you tired of being alone and looking for a man for a serious relationship? The desire to love and be loved is common to every person! As often happens, personal life suffers due to lack of free time or precious years were wasted on a relationship that had no future. Nowadays, we no longer need to wait for fate to find us: be it a chance meeting on the street, public transport or meeting a new colleague at work. Modern technologies provide a huge number of opportunities to meet new people: from your own country or from abroad. After all, you don’t need a visa or a plane ticket to access the Internet;-) You can easily communicate with a man living a couple of minutes away from you or with a man from another country living on another continent. Therefore, you need to take your personal life into your own hands and register on. For example, on dating site for German men! ;-)
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Men from Germany: what are they like?
There is no ready-made formula that would tell or show us what German men are like. However, German-speaking men (Austrians, Swiss) share some common traits.
Responsible attitude towards creating a family and having children. For, the question of starting a family will be raised only when he has an appropriate material base (job and stable income) that allows him to support his future wife and joint children.
Practicality: the German will not build “castles in the air.” Instead, he will soberly assess the situation and his capabilities so as not to let himself and the woman he loves down.
Patience and determination. Most men understand that obtaining a visa and other documents are purely formalities, and the goal - a happy future with the woman they love - justifies the time and effort spent.
Pleasant appearance and well-groomed appearance. take care of themselves and take care of their appearance.
German men are very romantic and believe in love and family union for life.
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It’s great that you clicked on the link on our website and ended up on this page. We can safely assume that you are interested in dating germans, which means you are on the right track - InterFriendship, created and administered in Germany, is rightfully considered the most successful in this field of dating today.
Since we are very sensitive to our clients and our work, we would not like to write banalities on the pages of the site that can be found repeatedly on various pages on the Internet. It’s better that we tell you, if not many, but real facts related to the Germans, communication with them and the nuances of the life of German men, based on our own experience. So...
Once upon a time, your humble servant agreed to give her hand and heart to a foreigner, or rather, she left marry a German. What can I say today, having lived for some time in Germany with a German husband? - an amazingly beautiful and diverse country, both in terms of culture, landscape, architecture, cuisine, and language (there are an incredible number of dialects and dialects of German). Here you can find both large cities and small picturesque villages (it is difficult to determine where life is more interesting and economically favorable); both mountains and plains; both modern quarters and medieval streets; meet both rather cold and arrogant people and open, welcoming people.
But you are probably more interested in, and, naturally, information about them.
- Dating Germans showed that they know how to be romantic: after more than 12 years life together I still find “love notes” here and there from my husband.
- they know how to take care: I receive amazing bouquets of flowers for any occasion or without it, and in the mornings I am almost always waiting for me, carefully prepared by my husband in the evening, with a clean cup next to the coffee maker and some small thing for breakfast.
- German men- wonderful cooks, they cook amazingly! I only remember what a kitchen is when we are expecting guests and my husband needs some help: peeling vegetables, finding seasonings, etc.
- The issue of hospitality is a separate issue. My closest friend already calls me “the artist from Gribov” :-), since my husband is always with a bang, not only inviting and receiving my guests, but also enthusiastically organizing for them every time cultural program, drives, carries, shows, tells, etc.
- And, probably, the most important thing... When I left, I found out that they are not greedy at all, as the hackneyed cliché goes: having taken a fancy to another cute store and bragging to my husband new purchase, I hear the invariable “Let’s go and see - maybe there’s still something beautiful there,” and in response to my cries that stop wasting money, I get the answer “Which of us is German?!” ;-)
Dating in Germany
Our site provides its services exclusively to those women who are serious about dating in Germany both with Germans and sometimes with Russian-speaking emigrants permanently residing in this country. If you are little familiar with the history, culture and mentality of Germany, be sure to visit our forum, and also read our informative pages with multifaceted information about life in Western Europe in general, and the life of Germans in particular. Armed with the necessary information about and understanding the style of thinking and living of the Germans, you will already be several steps closer to realizing the dreams of many of our compatriots - and live in one of the most developed countries in the world with a long history and culture; with your beloved man who can give you and your children reliability and confidence in the future.How to meet a German? What visa-free places are they guaranteed to live in? What do they pay attention to when meeting them? And where to go for a German if you are already in Germany! Everything is in order in this article, and watch the video for useful and fun life hacks and phrases!
Why are you learning German?
This question is heard more than once by anyone who has decided to seriously study the language of Heine and Goethe. However, most of us do not learn German in order to read the classics in the original. Some people need German for work, some are planning a trip to Germany in the summer, and some - no less - dream of marrying a German!
Wow, you tell me, where can I get him, this German? There are only Russian-speaking personalities around, and a German, he sits quietly in his Deutschland, drinks German beer and watches the match with Dortmund or Bayern. Where can I find him, a German, how can I get to know him? Mm…?
Don’t worry, dear ladies (not ladies, don’t worry either), because we will now tell you everything in detail. And you remember!
Where where?
First of all, let’s remember: to the question “where?” We answer not “in Karaganda”, but “on the Internet”!
Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and others social media- in our era of global Internetization and the widespread fashion for smartphones, it is strange to not be registered on at least one of these sites.
SECRET: every fifth average German is single and is actively looking for the lady of his heart or lady... for a pleasant time together.
The German Ministry of Statistics conducted a survey among 11,600 young people over the age of 18 in 2013 and found that 31% of respondents had already used the services of dating sites at least once and marriage agencies in the Internet. 22% of respondents admitted that they had already thought about it and would probably register on one of these sites in the near future.
The survey also shows that men first of all pay attention to the photo, and then to the age, height, weight of the future chosen one on the Internet, while women also look first of all at the photo, and then at the profession. It is also noteworthy that women most often choose men of their own age or older, and men are most attracted to young girls or ladies at least younger in age, which, in principle, suits each other.
Dating websites
You can search the Internet for dating sites in German using queries Partnersuche, Singlebörse. The top ten most popular include such portals as eDarling, ElitePartner, Partnersuche.de, Parship.de, FriendScout24.de as well as neu.de
1. Place breathtaking photo in a bikini, drawing Blue eyes in photoshop
2. Fill out information about yourself - that’s it, the fishing rod is cast, we’re waiting for the fish.
Germans love to meet beautiful Russian girls on the Internet; often such acquaintances end in long correspondence and the girl’s trip to Germany, but then you already know everything yourself. On such sites there are also many single ladies aged 35+ who cannot find a partner of the same level in everyday life.
FACT: According to a study by the University of Hamburg, two thirds of women over the age of 30 do not have a regular partner.
It is noteworthy that the higher the social status and level of education of a woman, the greater her chances of remaining single as she ages. The highest percentage of “loners” is among researchers and university professors.
The Internet provides enormous opportunities and chances not only in terms of searching for information, but also in communicating. Use this chance, do not miss the opportunity to make new contacts and acquaintances on the Internet. Maybe the next chat interlocutor will later turn out to be your one and only chosen one? Or maybe you will find your love on a dating site? Many of them, for example, eDarling, work on the principle of matching interests- you will be asked to answer various questions about yourself, revealing your tastes, preferences and interests, as well as fill out information about the prospective partner - age, status, views on life and family, etc. Well, then, as in a fairy tale, from the database of registered users you will be offered a list of candidates who best match your profile.
In Germany
For those who consider dating on the Internet a frivolous matter, we’ll tell you where else to catch a German. The most logical option is, of course, in Germany! But no matter how logical this option may be, it is also one of the most expensive and unreliable options.
Why? - Germans for the most part are not used to meeting girls on the streets, on the subway or bus, as well as in other public places, and meeting people at parties is more often viewed as a one-night stand without consequences and obligations in terms of continuing communication.
Where then do Germans most often meet their soulmate? Most people answer this question - at school, at university, among friends, at work. Someone introduced someone to someone, they already had mutual friends or acquaintances, they for a long time we communicated in the same circle of friends, and that’s how it developed and happened.
So if you came to Germany with the goal of meeting your future German husband, you should not count on a stream of interested glances and compliments from the very first second of your stay. In Germany, taking German language courses, the chance of meeting some nice Turkish or Italian is much higher than meeting a German. Therefore, the only option left is to study and work, or to look for a “bringing together” situation, such as a football match or a sports competition, a concert - when everyone is united by a wave of positive mood and people are a little liberated, so that the distance between your German and the outside world is somewhat reduced.
Or look for situations where the distance between you and the German will decrease due to external circumstances - for example, during a three-hour flight from Moscow to Berlin in the cabin of an airplane. In such a situation, why not start an unobtrusive small talk with your burgher neighbor? Or why not sit down with a German sitting alone on the train, first, of course, asking if the seat next to him is free. Such chances should be used, at a minimum, to practice spoken German.
Holidays in German
However, there is another option to meet a German in his “native environment”, and nowhere else, but in a “German” hotel in Mallorca or Lloret del Mar. These Spanish resorts have long been considered the number one holiday destination for German youth when it comes to sun, beach, parties, dating, girls.German students and graduates as a group book tickets and go to warm their sides under the southern sun, drink sangria and sleep for half a day on the beach after noisy parties. Germans can always be recognized by the fact that in the morning they take seats by the pool in advance, and in the evening they make more noise at the bar than dance and flirt with girls. So such a moment must be used - which German’s heart will remain indifferent to the beautiful Natalia, who so carefully rubbed sunscreen onto his back?..
In Russia
But not only abroad, but also at home, you can easily and with dignity meet a foreigner. First, let's think about where in Russia you can meet foreigners? - Of course, the most common option is in Moscow or St. Petersburg.
Most tourists come to large cities in the European part of Russia, either take a tour along the Golden Ring, or go on a trip along the Trans-Siberian Railway. From here - at the airport, on a train, subway, bus or on the street - when you see a confused tourist standing with a backpack and a map in his hands, you should not be shy, but, with a sweet smile, offer your help. Working as a tourist guide, flight attendant or receptionist in a hostel or hotel is an ideal option for those who only dream of meeting a foreigner.
Couchsurfers
In recent years, there has been a huge increase in the number of people registered on couchsurfing, the world's largest travel community. Couchsurfers - this is what those who travel, staying not in hotels or inns, but with other couchsurfers, call themselves, and also host guests from other countries.Couchsurfing is a unique opportunity to meet not only Germans, but generally people from all over the world, of any nationality and profession, and learn a lot about the world. Those who do not have the opportunity to accommodate guests at home choose the status "Coffee or drink"- this way you can meet in the center, stroll through tourist spots, and show the city “from the inside.” Dating through couchsurfing, as practice shows, is very intense and sometimes couchsurfers even remain close friends, visit each other, and travel together.
According to the story of one of my friends, who met her future husband this way, staying overnight with her friend, who was to be visited the next day by two German couchsurfers traveling along the Trans-Siberian Railway - this story can be used to make films and write memoirs. He came to her again two months later, having traveled all over Russia, passing through China and Mongolia, returning to her. Then they traveled together for three months across hundreds of miles and kilometers, across countries and continents, and very soon she was leaving for him, now for good.
Businessmen
For those who prefer to stay “closer to the ground” and who are far from the romance of travel, who are people of action and business - numerous opportunities are open to you in terms of business contacts with Germans. Germany is Russia's largest trading partner; every year hundreds of exhibitions and conferences are held in Russia on issues of further cooperation.
In such an environment you can make acquaintances of the highest level and who knows, maybe some German leader has been looking for a new secretary for a long time and not only?...
Volunteers
It is customary for Germans after school not to go straight to university, but to do some kind of social year, or travel, and often both. Therefore, every year more and more Germans go to Russia to do a good deed, help society, learn the Russian language and look for the answer to the question - what does she mean, this mysterious Russian soul. They come for six months or a year and often teach German in universities and language centers of the Goethe Institute, talk about Germany and communicate with the Russian-speaking public.If there is such an organization in your city, be sure to go to discussions and meetings, it’s a great opportunity hear “live German speech” and practice spoken German. And then, you see, it will work out new story, about which you can write memoirs and tell your children and friends.
Epilogue
Stories about how the prince found his princess have long become fairy tales not only for children, but also for adults. In a world where princes wear business suits and ties and drive around in Mercedes instead of white horses, the princesses have to adapt to the new rules of this world and go out of the castle into the world. Princesses now not only bat their eyes innocently and read smart books, they also diligently learn foreign languages and believe that somewhere out there, behind the seven hills (visas and borders), in the distant kingdom of the thirtieth state (in the European Union), roams the world (sitting on the Ikea sofa) their prince. And now he will pick up his laptop and go online, and maybe that’s how they will find each other...Or maybe they will meet by chance at the airport and mix up their suitcases... Or they will meet at the wedding of their best friends, who once found each other in the same way - when they least expected it...
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On our website dating Germans for marriage and a further trip to Germany is more than possible. The main thing is to take into account some nuances and not get acquainted solely for the sake of immigration. Do you dream of Germany and a German spouse? Start with the base - the language. There are 10 dialects in Germany, and the German taught in Russian linguistic universities is a small part of the country's linguistic wealth. Google Translate will help overcome the language barrier, but will limit communication to simple phrases and correspondence. German dialects are very different from the official language: northerners understand southerners as Russians understand Ukrainians. Do you know the language, are you ready to meet a German? Then the international dating site Worldating will help you.
Dating Germans for serious relationships
Russians believe that when meeting Germans, they Serious relationships First of all, they pay attention to appearance, age, weight, height. The common stereotype about “scary German women” asserts in Russian women the desire to put in their profile photos from the beach, a celebration, a nightclub - in “full dress.” The stereotype is irrelevant: German women began to take care of themselves, actively use cosmetics, dress well, and it is difficult to stand out from their competitors with their appearance.
When choosing a profile photo, focus on originality and truthfulness. Don’t put a photo from ten years ago, someone else’s photo, don’t try to embellish your appearance too much with Photoshop or professional make-up.
Be honest, otherwise, when you meet your loved one, you will be presented with an unpleasant surprise.
Germans are caring husbands and fathers, but the European mentality makes itself felt: you have to prove to your potential spouse that you are not going to live at his expense. Be sure to indicate your place of study and work, and tell us about your plans. Hobbies, interests, interests matter.
Dating a German for marriage
When meeting a German for marriage, the intentions - yours and your interlocutor's - are known to both. But the first days or weeks of communication should be devoted to abstract topics. Discuss books, films, weather, sports, travel, countries. Tell us about yourself if the interlocutor asks, without going into details: the problems of a stranger are boring and arouse suspicion.
Don't start talking about...
. Politics. The topic is too complex, different views on life, the world. Since childhood, Germans have been instilled with guilt for the Second World War and the Holocaust, and your potential spouse will be unpleasant to discuss the achievements of the Soviet army, the greatness of Russia and the cunning plans of Russian politicians.
. Tolerance, the roles of the fair half of humanity, “traditional family relationships" In Germany they treat gay people calmly and prefer not to talk about family traditions(they exist, but they are not discussed), we are used to independent, independent women.
. Personal problems. Are you mired in loans? Ex-husband doesn't pay child support? Is it difficult to find a good job? Don't dump it on unfamiliar person Problems. This will be regarded as an attempt at extortion: German men, having learned from bitter experience, are wary of “problem” women. Germans help close people, but fear strangers.
. About earnings, the property of the interlocutor. For a couple of innocent questions about the profession, work, career, if the interlocutor did not indicate information in the profile, they will not scold you. You should not be interested in your financial situation, salary, savings from the first days of acquaintance. Not all German men are worth attention. There are people looking for a free housekeeper who are outright scammers and mentally unstable. They don't come across often, but there is a risk.
When meeting and communicating with Germans, pay attention to...
. Questions about your financial situation, earnings, city of residence. Every German is an accountant at heart, and he may be genuinely interested in his partner's earnings, but when it comes to your future move, it's unlikely that your current salary matters.
. Abundance of messages, excessive activity of the partner, declarations of love a few days after meeting. Germans are much more reserved than Italians or Turks, so you should take a closer look at emotional messages.
. Haste. Is a foreigner ready to take you to Berlin in a month? Offers help with documents, ready to provide? Take your time: before the final move and wedding, meet, visit, and evaluate your partner. Don't rush to get married.
Meeting a German for marriage is an easy way to immigrate to Germany, available to Russian girls, but you should not focus solely on moving. First of all, you start a relationship and family, and only then do you move to another country.
How to guarantee a successful acquaintance?
Even if you are ready to overcome the language barrier and difference in mentality and dream of a love marriage, no one guarantees a successful move and happy life. Each person has his own habits and characteristics, you will have to adapt to everyone, find a common language with everyone. You can find a good person on the site, meet a German, sincerely fall in love, move and... break up with him in a year or two and return home.
If you want to immigrate to Germany, do not rely only on your partner: learn the language, master a new profession (or better yet, enroll in a German university), look for a job. This way you will gain independence and will not be afraid of losing your spouse.
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