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How to make a Virgo man fall in love. Relationship problems: should you call first? What to do if a Virgo man doesn’t call

The initiative shown by a girl is justified only if there is a reciprocal feeling. Otherwise, persistent calls will be perceived as intrusive advances, which men really don’t like.

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Who can you call first and who not? How to understand a man's character

If we take the zodiac circle as a basis, in which each sign has its own character traits, we can identify several types of men who should not be called first. Most often, representatives of the stronger sex who react violently to a woman’s initiative are born under the constellations Virgo, Leo and Scorpio. Each of them has their own reasons that prevent them from adequately perceiving active and courageous girls.

If a guy doesn’t call for a day, two, three, four, you shouldn’t call him first. In the time that has passed, he could have found a way to contact you even from the impenetrable taiga. Most likely, he doesn’t want more meetings, he’s just afraid to say so

Virgo men are too pedantic; they cannot stand it when someone violates the order they created. Perhaps he was about to call himself, and the girl beat him to it. This brings discord into his plans, and Virgos really don’t like to redo their life schedules drawn up in advance.

The Leo man loves to dominate too much, and a woman’s call seems to him an attempt to “drive him under his heel.” The reaction to such a step can be the most furious.

Scorpio men do not have much good quality character: they like to do everything the other way around. He may be happy about the call, but he can’t say so. Scorpio will pretend to be offended, and then wait for an apology.

Call first and not spoil the relationship, in what cases is this possible?

To understand whether it is worth writing or calling first, you will have to analyze the situation. If there is a possibility that the guy simply forgot to call, then the girl’s initiative will be completely justified and will only cause a positive reaction.

If you're wondering whether to call first or not, wait a little longer. Perhaps in a day your decision will mature and you will be more confident in your own feelings

A Virgo man is not easy to understand. He is practical and taciturn. But underneath the outer coldness hides an amorous and vulnerable heart. Let's take a closer look at Virgo in marriage and life.

He considers all of you, girls and women, ideal, but uncertainty and timidity in front of you hinders him. Take a closer look, have patience, and the reward for your love will be the sincere tenderness and devotion of the Virgo man.

How to understand a Virgo man?

Virgo (24.08 - 23.09) is an earth sign, and therefore behaves reasonably. It is unlikely that you will notice him in the club. He wears discreet clothes, there is no fiery searching look, no calf enthusiasm in flirting and excitement in dancing. The Virgo man has no talent for undertaking anything - he is rarely a conqueror of women's hearts. Most likely, you appreciated it at work or in a small company. Perhaps you found out from friends that he likes you? Either way, you have a date. And what? There may not even be kisses. More like a conversation, the most he can say is: “I like you (or you).” The courtship stage is the most difficult for them: Virgo guys are constrained, experience awkwardness and fear of humiliation. Such meetings can continue for a long time, with breaks, retreats and renewed persistence, but without proposal. And you are already starting to think: “How boring, and what is all this for?” Why is this happening? Even if you “hooked” him, he will go into hiding to think. Passion seems to Virgos to be a disease of the soul. They analyze their feelings, under the guise of secrecy or ridicule, and try to prove their affection with deeds rather than words of love. Virgos are not just calm, but very prudent and cautious. They make demands on their partner in accordance with their ideal: they pay attention to how you behave, how you look, they look closely at you, how polite you are. They expect moral integrity, chastity, affection and similar goals: work, intellectual interests, etc. Sex is not the tool to keep them. In addition, Virgos are afraid of getting infected and almost never enter into casual relationships.

How to win a Virgo man?

There is one way to activate such a man - to convince him that he is doing you a favor. He will want to show you how well he will serve you. With flattery and admiration you can inspire him to do anything. He will show passion even if there is none. In sex, Virgos are quite skilled and can satisfy any taste, but what strikes a woman most is the tenderness that other men are not capable of. However, they always remember their behavior in bed and the behavior of their partner, notice body details: skin color, shape of toes, smells, and if they don’t like something, they can turn away forever. An observant and critical mind, pickiness and even snobbery often make them lonely for a long time, and sometimes misanthropes, inveterate skeptics and drug addicts. Among them there are also sexual tramps with a penchant for pornography, changing women one after another when the heart is completely cold.

Virgo men in marriage

Virgos usually get married after a long courtship, subjecting their beloved to many tests, after which they fall in love with her forever. Virgos in marriage require their partners and children to live in a disciplined manner. In the family, everything is assigned an exact time and place, everything must be in “virgin” order, but they also give their all. After all, such a man chose you to serve you. He provides well for his family and will be faithful. Cheating on his wife can turn his character around, and the thirst for love will turn into a thirst for revenge. Provided that his wife is attentive to him and friendly, he becomes an excellent family man.

Compatibility of Virgo men

All three earth signs: Virgo, Taurus and Capricorn behave passively in their youth, but their goals coincide and their connections are honest. They are suitable for each other because they are strict, patient and organized in the pursuit of professionalism and financial stability. But, having reached the age of 30, Virgos loosen their strictness, fixation on work and are now compatible with Scorpios and Cancers, who help them free themselves from restrictions and get a taste of life. But Virgo’s rationalism hurts Cancer’s sensitivity. With Scorpios, Virgos can be happy, but they look at life too differently. Unions with Taurus, Scorpio and Cancer often fall apart. By the age of 42, Virgos have already developed enough to appreciate the intelligence and activity of Sagittarius. But Sagittarius is not suitable for Virgo for marriage. He should also avoid Aries. Frequent conflicts are possible with Libra. No sign has more bachelors than Virgo, because they are very indecisive in the courtship stage and in their choice. For this sign, it is better to draw up a separate horoscope for compatibility with a partner and fateful connections.

A philosophical supper, or how I dated a Virgo man

Everything was ruined as always by the worst friends! One cold winter evening, accompanied by martinis and Celentano songs, they showed interest in my acquaintance Dev, noting that he was already a little old for a bachelor, and yet he was quite a decent match, both with his career and money. Is it worth saying that, hungry for male attention, I took this into account, and I myself made not a meeting, but a date with a Virgo man. It was here that the first features of his stellar temperament appeared. I had to court him with the persistence of a cat on a March day, but he capriciously chose a cafe that was cheaper, but so that the kitchen did not let us down. And then he asked me to pick him up because he didn’t want to take the car from the parking lot, but public transport doesn't respect.

Both on the first date and in subsequent meetings, the Virgo man loved to either talk about himself or delve into the philosophical problems of existence. He persistently recommended that I read this or that book so that the next day I could devote a couple of hours to discussing the suffering of the main character or the author’s ideas. It so happened that I had to prepare for each meeting more persistently than for exams in high school. In other words, the Virgo man turned out to be a rare bore!

At the same time, even after becoming a couple, I did not feel a man next to me. For my birthday, he gave me an old record with a Bible for children, citing the fact that I was poorly informed in this direction, visits to public places were limited to free seminars and concerts, and he considered all other entertainment events to be a money grab.

Moreover, the Virgo man had no problems with money. His career steadily went up. He had a natural Woman's intuition, he knew which scams were worth going for and which ones were better to avoid. At the same time, the Virgo man cannot be denied an analytical mind; he even calculated at least 4-5 moves ahead in a chess game, not to mention exchange rates and real estate prices. In addition, he had friends, wealthy people who were directly related to power. They all owed him something, ever since their dashing youth, and they paid off very generously with connections, tenders and patronage.

He bought himself expensive, but high-quality and stylish things, flew business class on business trips, exchanged a new car for an even newer one, but he preferred to eat at home, and macaroni and cheese, because meat and vegetables are “so expensive” in the spring. He loved to touch money, stroke it, put portraits together, count them and look at watermarks. His wallet was manically organized, the same as in a house where books are arranged in alphabetical order, shelves are dusted twice a day, and in the refrigerator everything is organized by color and expiration date.

In bed, by the way, everything is also subject to regulations. For foreplay 3 minutes, for intercourse 4 minutes, for talking after 3 minutes, and thanks to everyone - everyone is free! After all, the Virgo man is used to sleeping alone, which means that a decent woman should get ready after sex and go spend the night at her place.

After one of these meetings, I suddenly felt hopelessly sad. It seemed that I was not a young lady, but some kind of loser gentleman, from whom they demand, as from a man, but they constantly point out that you have not yet grown up to this honorary title and never will. And I decided to part with my Virgo. He demanded explanations for a long time and tediously, and until I laid out everything, he did not calm down. True, then I called 2-3 more times to clarify!

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How I dated a Virgo man
I’m not lying one iota if I say that after a dangerous day of life and health experience in a relationship with a Scorpio man, I began to be afraid of all representatives of Adam’s class at once and one by one...
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Virgo man doesn't call(

Should I call myself?

don't call for anything

Zodiac sign has nothing to do with it

Don’t call, he’ll call himself, my Virgo called a month later.

10, +1 Everyone knows this, even the most dense ones! :)))

Virgos protect their honor until the wedding and never call first. Shyness doesn't allow them. You didn't know?

But Cancer-music didn’t want to call me :) Haha,

What the hell does it matter who he is according to the horoscope? What matters is that the author according to the horoscope is a COMPLEXED FOOL! You won’t call when he becomes your husband?

You know, I used to read the title of the topics “how to attract a Taurus if I’m a cow”, “Are Pisces more tender than scales” and fell asleep! I thought they were idiots! And so, I once read about the signs of my friends and there is some truth) And this VIRGIN_FREAK IS NOT CALLING!

For the first time I agree with Vasya about the Author’s horoscope sign. One to one.

17-ha.respect.Who are you according to your horoscope, 39363813?

The Virgo sign is actually very vulnerable; if he is offended, he does not forgive in his soul, but in words - yes, he will forgive. I advise those whose beloved is a Virgo to take their touchiness into account. And besides. They carry water to the offended; it doesn’t fit here.

Virgos are terrible bores. And who are you according to your horoscope?

U menja tozhe M4-deva.Zakolebal.Postojanno s nim v ssore.Praviljno,skazali-zanudi i nado derzhatsja ot nih podalshe.

I'm a Pisces! So what is he thinking about, I’m offended.

Call yourself, what's the problem? Virgos are obsessed with work, maybe they’re just busy and don’t care about this issue; they often need to be bothered.

Does not call. I don’t understand him, it would be better not to call at all than like this, first he rings, then he falls into the sewer. what to do with him? (((((

And I'm a fish, I want attention. and he ((((((

will call again. analyzes something

25 you write directly in my words. exactly. Mine hasn’t called for days either - and before that it’s all “contrasts”. although in general everything is fine in the relationship. I don’t even know what to do. or is it such a mysterious girlish character?

And he just put himself like that!

If you don’t change the situation now, you will always remain guilty. Moreover, the period of his silence will continue to increase.

Fucking manipulator! Just don't be fooled! scream, bite your elbows, roll on the floor, but do everything not to call first.

If he doesn’t get in touch again, everything is clear, you shouldn’t waste any more time on him, but if he gets too carried away, you win! And if this situation happens again, don’t put up with it again. Will quickly relearn. If it's valuable, of course!

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Virgo man doesn't call(
Should I call myself?
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The Virgo man doesn’t call, doesn’t write, doesn’t call anywhere

Six months ago, a guy came to our company, 26 years old, single, handsome, tall, and I immediately liked him. We quickly became friends; according to the Virgo horoscope (born September 10), it was clear that he liked me, although we communicated more on business matters. We exchanged phone numbers and added each other on social media. networks. But it is strange that he does not show any activity. He doesn’t write, although I see him online in the evenings, and he doesn’t call.

What would you do in my situation? Would you start getting active yourself, or forget?

it means she's not very pretty

doesn’t show initiative, it means he doesn’t want to

Aren't you ashamed to impose yourself?

Ne partes, esli nravites rojavitsa. Oni tight! Ja so svoim 2goda prorabotala prez"de cem on resilsa na bolee menee aktivnie sagi, a do etogo bilo jasno cto nravljus no nikakih aktivnih dejstvij

it was clear that he liked me

Don't deceive yourself. But it’s worth taking the initiative, maybe something will work out.

This means only one thing - he doesn’t like you and he doesn’t want to communicate with you.

If a girl has no dignity, then let her annoy the one who has clearly shown that he is breathing evenly in her direction.

He doesn’t like you so he doesn’t write everything, just don’t rack your brains

“Virgo-Ox is homely, conservative, responsible. Very hardworking and responsible, she can be trusted with any complex work. Virgo-Ox is disciplined and objective, law-abiding, protects her property and does not encroach on someone else’s. Emotional life reduces to a minimum. Prefers silence and work to noisy fun."

Eh, well, the pies are probably too much. This is too strong a hint. And an invitation to the cinema. Continue to communicate on work issues, invite them to join you for lunch. Just don't get too hung up on it (although it's easy to say). Do everything easily and unobtrusively, according to the principle: no, no judgment.

if he doesn’t show interest, then you’re not his type of girl. And I’m more than sure that you wouldn’t like him if you got to know him better.

Why do you think so? He is an interesting guy, with a sense of humor and attractive :) Or do you have your own opinion about Virgo guys?

This means only one thing - he doesn’t like you and he doesn’t want to communicate with you.

Maybe so. But strangely, I felt that he liked me. There were all these glances and flirting on his part.

it means she's not very pretty

Well, not a real beauty, but not ugly either. True, she is small in height - 162 cm... but she is slim and doesn’t look like a ***. There were gentlemen, the guys were getting acquainted.

Girl, you are not a soviet aunt. In the West, they don’t give a damn, they wait for the girl to glue it together herself. And they walk like bulls. And you do the same. Do you like him? Invite them to the movies, call them, treat them to homemade pies. If a Virgo, then Doni is focused on rationality. So you need to tell some story so that you can see how smart you are. But what attracts them most is money. Maybe you are rich or just buy yourself a new car? Apparently, he is a Virgo-Ox. Look for information about them on the internet, a lot will become clear. Here I have found their quintessence for you, so to speak:

"Virgo-Ox? domestic, conservative, responsible. Very hardworking and responsible, she can be trusted with any complex work. Virgo-Ox is disciplined and objective, law-abiding, protects her property and does not encroach on others. Reduces emotional life to a minimum. Prefers silence and work noisy fun."

I don’t know how it is in the west. But I won’t impose myself that much, and it’s not in my character...

Should Virgo men really take the initiative?

It is the women who should run after such men, and not vice versa.

:)) What not? Or are Virgos something special??

In short, I scored)))

Well, yes, you don’t show initiative and they don’t give a damn, because... passive, if you show it, they will immediately run away and hide, because timid. They are strange, even if they have a lot of advantages, but here they are masculinity Do not feel.

I had a crush on one too, they said, he was very nice and then one day I couldn’t help but write to him that he looked like my beloved uncle when he was his age (the truth is, my uncle, my father’s brother, I loved the resemblance very much as a child their appearance is simply amazing). So this girl, I don’t know what he fantasized about and what he didn’t like, but the horizon disappeared. So unexpectedly and without explanation. To say that I was very unpleasant is to say nothing, but I did NOT rush after him and did not try to find out the truth. Maybe he was looking for a reason, something to complain about, and found it. And if so, then that means he needed me so much. And to this day I am in the dark, because... We cannot even cross paths by chance - we are from different places.

They say (even here on the forum) that they later become wonderful husbands, etc. Well, I believe it. This means that those girls never said anything unnecessary, did not frighten them in any way, everyone liked them, were loved and were taken as wives. Well, this is how I insulted Virgo. /

I have a very similar situation... I met Dev at work, through mutual friends. He took my ICQ number from a friend and added it. He complained that I was not online, and when I appeared, he wrote once, but now he is silent. Strange(((

Same situation! They are very passive!

Maybe that's their nature. It’s just that when we communicate, everything is crazy, or the actor is super, but why then..

In short, I scored)))

Lord, that’s why they are VIRGINS! Because they are like girls - touchy, lacking initiative, waiting to be carried in their arms. The SIGN is like this(.

yes does not depend on the sign

Girls, do you need this hell? I've been going through it for two years now. But at first there were precisely these prerequisites - he appeared, disappeared, then sweet words, then silence, like sympathy, but in reality it turned out that he was callous, indifferent, selfish and just some kind of frozen person. And there are so many similar stories on the Internet!

This type of Virgo is close to the last radical type - they say that the greater number of maniacs and sadists are among Virgo men. So in the second type, these signs are very evident, only in a milder form. Perhaps they themselves do not even realize that sometimes they simply mock, torment a person with their silent neglect.

I will never again in my life contact a Virgo man if I see even the slightest hint of such behavior in him. This silent observation “of the victim”, a subtle and skillful game of flirting is simply his “fishing” for empty hook. Don't get caught, girls! Spare yourself! Do you know what happiness it is when a man admires you - tenderly, warmly and sincerely? Not so with Virgo. With his coldness, he provokes us to kindle an ever stronger fire in your souls. And he does it very well. It seems to us, well, just a little more, and he will warm up, melt, and a stream of tenderness will flow from his soul onto us! Yeah. it will pour! Wait! . It creates a colossal psychological bind, from which you will then not be able to extricate yourself without loss to yourself. And at the peak of your burning he will warm himself up and silently leave, because he has already achieved his goal, but he CANNOT and DOES NOT KNOW how to love in return.

If you still want to conquer such a monster, you just need to mirror it. With one hand, quietly attract, let him know very subtly, not intrusively and almost invisibly, that you like him, and with the other hand, push him away, ignore him, treat him a little down, with slight sarcasm. In general, Virgo is yours until he feels like a conqueror, playing a very subtle game at the subconscious level. As soon as he feels that he has achieved his goal and completely owns your soul, he becomes uninterested in you. Like a read book.

If you want to play these games, go ahead! She's captivating, but she's also dangerous. It is dangerous for us women. You can really hurt your soul. And Virgo is like water off a duck's back. Some of them seem to have no soul, or a soul that only loves itself.

Sorry for the many words! It hurts with this Virgo! My advice to you is to stay away from them while things haven’t started with you yet!

yeah on a bare hook) only he is not alone and you are not the only fish.

more and more new topics about girls)) keep up the good work

It's not about Virgos, it's about weak and calculating men and women who love deeply. In the end, both are weak. That's all. no one is forcing you to conquer it. Why were they staring at him? If you don't like his coldness, leave.

Obviously you didn't understand me. I have not been with him for a long time, all that remains is pain.

Dorothea, thank you for your sincerity! Everything is very accurate, especially about psychological dependence. I’m no longer a girl, but no one has ever touched me like that before, though this is the first (and last) Dawa in my life. The terrible feeling of an interrupted flight, when a relationship is interrupted just like that, for no reason at all. This feeling of incompleteness, of not completing a relationship is very unpleasant (a person completely calms down when the process of something is completed for him, he can leave it behind and start something new from scratch). Virgos do not give this opportunity, leaving the woman in limbo. And you are right, this is not love, this is a painful desire to end the process and be free from it. But this is exactly what Virgos don’t need.

Yes, yes, exactly an interrupted flight! Just my words and my feelings. It's like being shot in the air.

By the way, until you know who the girls are, they look very advantageous against the background of other men, such handsome elves, inaccessible, incomprehensibly romantic, as soon as you comprehend their essence, all other men look advantageous against the background of these manipulators :))). So what kind of special brand that the virgins hold is the author of posts 25 and 26 proud of - it’s not entirely clear :)) This brand remains a brand until you understand all the shittyness of the virgin, but only a light analysis of the applicant’s actions is required, how all its vintageness disappears, leaving a feeling of disappointment and disgust:))) Or the males of this sign believe that the suffering for them will last forever.))))))))))))

(Ugh, I broke up today) and yet, such behavior, in my opinion, is a sign of spiritual not only coldness, but also emptiness. Well, a real man with brains, passionate about some idea or business, will not set psychological snares and traps for the opposite sex, reveling in his own coolness and dependence of the victim. Real men, even if they indulge their pride, do so with something else that is truly worthwhile.

This is the way it is with you, somehow you are not nice that they broke up with you like that. What makes you think that all virgins do this to everyone? You've worked yourself up so much that you can already become scriptwriters in soap operas. As for the brand, this is just humor, but here too you asked yourself a question and did not understand simple sarcasm. Maybe in a relationship you were looking for some hidden moves, games, manipulations, subtext. Maybe they played, they were in your character and saw through it even earlier and played with you. Although this is my imagination.

Do you consider yourself not worthy of the vanity of a real man?

Virgos are very active and talkative when they like someone (when they don't like someone, too). Communicate with them is a pleasure.

Dorothea, oh how some Virgo grabbed you! What if it was Leo or Aquarius? It's not about the sign, you don't need to blame everything on it. But I think that this is how men with some kind of complex behave, who cannot fully open up to a woman, perhaps they are afraid of close relationships, or are simply too selfish.

I agree with Another Guest, as a rule, both people with complexes end up in such relationships. This is a mirror, not so smart herself. I found myself in such a relationship myself. And not Virgo, but Capricorn. Also a brain-composter. Indeed, a person who is afraid to open up is afraid of trusting relationships and is too selfish. That's how I am. Everything in life is not accidental. It's yours back side moon.

Do you consider yourself not worthy of the vanity of a real man? (ts)

I had no desire to understand the man’s authenticity. As soon as I was confronted with the fact of silence, I immediately accepted the terms of the game (well, or not the game, as your vanity pleases :)). I didn’t impose myself, write, find out or find out something, much less ask for attention and communication. He died like that :)

I would not use the verb “to wind up” here in relation to my case. This is my first experience, so I wanted to figure it out, at least for myself, I won’t hide it. But having sorted it out, I came to the conclusion that virgins are unlikely to attract a real man :) I’m really too lazy to describe why :) I’ll say one thing, dating sites are full of such amazingly popular, incomparable, coveted virgins. Every second person there is a virgin due to widowhood, divorce or eternal bachelorhood. Apparently, having created a virgin man, God forgot to create a mate for him. So the wretched people wander around all sites and non-sites in search of a worthy one, trying to isolate her from among the illiquid stock. Tough task:))))))

As for the fact that I didn’t suit him (if we go to my specific case), then here you are completely wrong. Rather, he really liked me, but he, my dear one, wanted to bend me over for the full effect, to see how much he sank into my soul. The sinking worked, but not to the expected quality. Now I will continue to spit for a long time :) Or should you, virgins, at least do this, as long as you don’t become completely indifferent and oblivion? :)))))

Since horoscopes are being discussed here, can you find out who you are by your sign?

Another guest, if the question is for me, then I am a Sagittarius by sign.

Oh, sorry, you asked my nickname about the sign (and I asked the same thing), but I didn’t recognize it myself :))))))

Or you girls, at least

so, as long as there is not complete indifference with

No, after leaving you don’t give a damn about what’s going on with you, and if you’re not interested in “why he died,” that means you don’t give a damn and don’t care where he is, what’s wrong with him? And you think that you did everything right.

Yes. A person with internal complexes, with a fear of intimacy, will maintain a comfortable psychological distance. The moment you are closer, he doesn’t feel comfortable, he takes a step back. You are further away - he takes a step forward so as not to miss you. This may continue for a long time.

Exit? Turn the situation around and just end this relationship. Or, on the contrary, find out everything inside and out. But for this you need to be strong, psychologically and in character. Or you can gradually, slowly, reduce the distance and let him get closer and closer, breaking down complexes and fear. But it's time and work. Are you ready for this? Decide for yourself.

Agree with you. I gradually communicate like this, changing myself and he changes. I was just afraid of losing a person, erasing him from my life. BUT the work is difficult, even more so for yourself. That is, everyone has complexes, they cannot be overcome, you need to learn to live with them. I don’t know what will happen next, but at least I have a good friend, and that’s worth a lot. Especially when one day a friend is such a macho man for everyone, and suddenly turns to a woman for support. We both seem to be very successful and public, but we all have complexes and life problems. So any relationship is a waste, you need to see why it was given to a person.

Sorry I came across errors.

So this is what we are talking about, that THIS is how men with complexes behave. Virgo is not the only man with whom I have had a relationship. There were men of other signs. I left someone, someone didn’t like me, they left. Not everything is always beautiful, but to just dump in silence like that after achieving reciprocity, receiving help, maintaining warm a good relationship- This is the first time I’ve encountered this. Naturally, I was left confused and incomprehensible. No, of course I understand that a person no longer needs a relationship, he’s tired of it, he doesn’t like it, but why not talk about it, explain himself, close the door completely behind him, leave with dignity himself and leave a woman not humiliated by refusal and ignorance, but respecting herself ? Why make it more painful where it already hurts?

Probably men of other signs do this too, but for Virgos it’s almost a pattern. Stories like this are a dime a dozen. People often separate when their relationship ends, when they both come to a logical end, or when someone else appears who breaks up the existing couple. Virgos often disappear suddenly, without any reason. Women, even the most self-critical ones, cannot understand the reasons for such behavior, cannot understand their guilt. And not because they are blind, but because it really does NOT exist. It's all about the cockroaches of Virgo. They are simply very big egoists, also deprived of any emotionality, the ability to love, to feel. At the same time, they have very great charm and attractiveness. I know one such “charming” Virgo man who seems like a sweetheart in public, but at home beats his pregnant wife.

I’ll make a reservation once again - not all m-Virgos are like this, but a similar pattern is more often observed among men of this sign. Therefore, if at the beginning of a relationship there are similar signals, then you need to be wary. Because THEN, as a rule, nothing can be tolerated or fallen in love with such people. It will only get worse.

My beloved man Virgo kicked me out the door at 2 a.m. because I wanted to watch the movie “Once More About Love” and it annoyed him. He said he needed attention and I was watching stupid movies. Like this.

I think that before this you simply did not notice his “great” attitude towards you

Dorothea, I understand that you are probably still in pain, because... remained in limbo. Learn from this experience. Otherwise, you will again end up in a dependent relationship.

It is rare when both end a relationship, especially since the man usually takes the right to break up, especially the one with complexes. More often this is his revenge for a failed relationship. Don Juan complex.

Moreover, no one will say to your face, that’s all for now. And ZZ has nothing to do with it.

Do you reject astrology altogether? I say this about m-Virgos based on my experience and the experience of so many women who have encountered m-Virgos. And I claim that this pattern can be traced more often among m-Virgos.

Otherwise I agree with you. And about complexes and about their revenge for previous defeats. In my case, this is exactly what happened. Several meetings before me that did not end well. The man, already at a fairly mature age of 8 years, was divorced, interrupted by random meetings. He could not get along with anyone for a long time and seriously. Although not bl—n and makes a very pleasant, trustworthy impression when meeting.

And I hope I learned from the experience. If there is another meeting with m-Virgo, I will be very wary of him, if not avoid him altogether. out of harm's way.

Talisman stones for all zodiac signs. Virgo

Virgos are born under the influence of the Earth element, during the most fruitful period of the year: the end of summer and the beginning of autumn, the harvest. Nature has rewarded people of this sign with practicality; they know how and can achieve their goals, they are persistent and reasonable.

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In addition, Virgo men are very selective and rarely go to the registry office with the first woman they meet and love.

What qualities are inherent in men of this sign?

You need to know them in order to understand how to make them fall in love with you.

Firstly, it is worth paying attention to the fact that most Virgos are very pedantic. They follow the rules, and very often their own, and not those imposed by society.

To understand what Virgo really wants, you should listen to his words. Men of this sign directly express what they don’t like. For example, they may pay attention to the provocative makeup of a girl on the street or notice a crease in a stocking.

What others do not pay attention to causes irritation or even anger in representatives of this sign. Therefore, in order to please Virgo, you must first of all meet the standards of beauty that a man has established for himself. And it will not be difficult to identify them. He sees off the girls he likes with a rather frank look.

Virgo men If at the beginning of courtship you can still expect gifts or flowers from them, then later the presents stop. And representatives of this sign are very attracted to girls who are also economical. Therefore, in order to make a Virgo fall in love with you, you need to show in every possible way that you do not like to spend money left and right, and in general prefer to plan expenses.

Relationship rules

At the beginning of a relationship it is worth come to terms with the fact that the Virgo man is dating someone else. They do not tolerate jealousy, so the girl who does not create scenes and scandals has a greater chance of becoming the only candidate for legal spouse.

However You shouldn’t show indifference to deeds and actions Virgo men. They really love for a woman to admire them, ask for advice, and give compliments. Representatives of this sign are very self-confident; even outright rude flattery will be taken at face value.

Virgo men are very calm. Even too calm and balanced. It is very difficult to get them emotional. And this complicates the task for a woman who wants to make a Virgo fall in love with her. It is very difficult to understand what feelings a man really experiences. And even a frank conversation will not help. If a representative of this sign is not confident in his companion, he will never tell what exactly he feels for her. All that remains is observe behavior.

If a Virgo man often calls, invites you on dates, shows signs of attention, introduces you to friends and relatives, it means he has the most serious intentions. However there is no need to intensify the attack, Virgos do not tolerate intrusiveness and can break off relationships out of spite, just to avoid falling under someone’s pressure.

To make a Virgo fall in love with you, you need follow three principles– be attentive and caring, give him enough freedom. This is exactly the kind of behavior that representatives of this sign expect from their ideal companions.

The Virgo man does not sing serenades under the windows and does not cook his beloved dinner by candlelight. But is he really bad for this, and is there nothing to praise him for? Of course not. Virgo's love is concentrated not only on a woman. Virgo loves a woman devotedly and selflessly, as well as parents, friends, work and everyone who is weaker and more defenseless than him.

Unlike the talkative Leo, Virgo is silent and does not need sentimental scenes. On the contrary, ardor can repel such a man. But there is one secret that will help win a Virgo man - moderation in everything, including phone calls. An intelligent, self-possessed, calm, natural woman will melt Virgo’s cold heart faster than a crafty coquette with hourly calls and stormy declarations of adoration.

Why doesn't the Virgo man call? Perhaps his companion lied to him or was oversensitive. Or maybe she made a remark to him about a non-existent matter, thereby wanting to attract the attention of the Virgo? This path is wrong and invariably leads to one ending - a break in relations.

Or maybe the man is very busy at his favorite job and should wait? After all, you must admit that the price for a faithful, intelligent and reliable man is small. And his busyness and taciturnity can turn out to be a plus for an intelligent chosen one. He will not, like Leo, demand from his girlfriend all her attention and eloquence. Free time and trust - what could be better?

It is incredibly difficult to persuade a Virgo man to take on an adventure or a dubious adventure. The gift of foresight, subtle intuition and a sharp mind - these faithful helpers protect the earthly man from troubles. They also work in relationships with women. If a man understands that his chosen one does not qualitatively match him and his heart remains or has become cold, then no amount of persuasion will keep him close to his partner.

Why did the man stop calling? If this man is a Virgo, then there can be two reasons: busyness and the desire to break off an inappropriate relationship. Virgo seeks quality, and despite his reluctance to cause pain, his affairs often end tragically.

But if he is sure that his companion is exactly what he needs, then patience, perseverance and endurance will eventually destroy all barriers to rapprochement. Virgo's beloved woman will receive a husband, friend, father, protector and admirer in one person. But not all women get such happiness!

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