Why do beautiful girls choose only the best men?

Your rank (or level - whatever you want to call it) determines what kind of girls you will date. And beauty in women is the same ranking value as inner strength in men. How more beautiful woman, especially strong man she wants to see next to her. Beautiful girls usually know their worth and will not date those who internally does not correspond to the image of a real man.

This explains why simple pick-up artists are not always able to seduce a high-status beauty if their internal rank is not so high.

Now we will figure out how to win the love of a truly beautiful girl.

What you will encounter with 99% probability

Before I give you any tips on communicating and seducing beautiful girls, you should remember 2 points in her behavior that you will definitely encounter. And, most likely, you won’t even suspect it.

There is such a thing as the “law of correspondence”. For a woman, every situation (especially sensitive ones) is a reason to look at your behavior and understand who you really are. There are a great many such situations, and beautiful girls will observe your behavior, drawing their own conclusions.

Therefore you have 3 options:

1. Really be a real man and behave as your inner voice tells you.
2. Study how real men behave in a variety of situations. And strictly control your behavior to prevent mistakes.
3. Behave naturally and don’t pretend even in small things.

The second option is very unreliable because Woman's intuition- a strong thing. Her sixth sense will help her immediately form an impression of you. And even if you try to hide some weaknesses, they will sooner or later surface.

The third one only works when you actually behave naturally, and not habitually (natural and habitual behavior are slightly different things).

Besides, you will encounter a lot of checks. The essence of the test comes down to the fact that the girl is unconsciously trying to create a situation in which you will show your true colors. And this happens because she sees some kind of discrepancy between your behavior and the image that you created.

Therefore, study even more carefully the basics of real male behavior (our site will help you with this) and be prepared to go through all the tests.

We win the love of a beautiful girl

We will win her not with flowers and long courtship, but with correct behavior and the creation of the necessary sexual tension.

• Don't show too much attention

Especially in the initial stages.

Surely you think that every girl loves when her beauty is admired. But she doesn’t love the guy who admires her, but the very fact of this admiration. :)

Beautiful girls are used to the fact that guys literally from the first seconds of communication they look into their mouth, listen to their every word, look for their gaze and are ready to immediately give their hand to be cut off in order to spend the night with them.

This is the wrong position, which immediately kills all chances of seducing her. And even if she liked you at first sight, and then began to give a lot of your attention, most likely you will not receive anything.

There are 2 reasons for this:

1. A person (in our case, a girl) is not interested in achieving what already belongs to him.
2. A man who shows increased attention to a woman when she has not yet earned it is considered low-grade (in the sense of a beautiful girl).

• Keep the tension up

Sexual attraction is born only when there is tension. Why do all seducers say that when a beautiful girl is in the company of her friends, most of the attention should be given to her friends? Because this will create tension and a desire to win your interest. And this is already a good step towards seducing her.

If you've read on our website, you've probably noticed that they often use exactly this strategy with beautiful girls.

Voltage gives rise to unconscious attempts in her to attract your attention(even if she doesn't show it at the very beginning). She thinks about you more often and, accordingly, you become more valuable in her eyes.

And this tension must be maintained throughout the entire seduction (and often even after sex).

• Refuse occasionally

You can refuse her when she takes the initiative. But you don’t need to get carried away with this either.

You must sometimes show her that there are things more valuable than sex (show by refusing). The seducers of the site project had it happen many times that beautiful girls themselves offered to retire to the cafe toilet, but we refused them. Why did we do this - you ask? :) And then, this greatly increases the tension and increases the chances of successful seduction. After all, there is nothing more interesting than a very beautiful girl who really wants you.

However, over time, you yourself will feel that sometimes you need to do this.

• Don't propose to meet more than 2 times in a row

If you hear a refusal once, then it can be considered normal. However, if she refused you 2 times in a row, then the reason is not her busyness, but your unattractive behavior.

I advise you to change your strategy slightly, and also stop trying to drag her into a meeting. On the contrary, it is better to just talk about something interesting, joke, and say goodbye without suggesting a meeting. And do this several times.

And only then ask her out again.

• Deny her requests

At the very beginning of communication, a girl (no matter whether she is very beautiful or just cute) may try to ask you for some favor.

She does this in order to understand which group of men to enroll you in: potential sexual partners or as friends who fulfill her requests.

At such moments, it is important to confidently (without fear of offending) refuse.

Golden rule: until you have had an intimate relationship with her, it is better not to fulfill any requests.

• Match your words and image

Any beautiful girl has a lot of experience communicating with men. This helps her determine whether the man matches the previously created image of herself.

For example, if you tried to show that you are a tough male, and after a couple of months you yourself were unable to answer anything worthy to the cattle who “attacked” you, then be prepared for total failure.

The same goes for your own rules and beliefs. If you show her that you don't like lack of discipline, then be kind and stick to your own beliefs and rules.

• Have goals and show your potential

Fun guys with no purpose are often liked by ordinary girl students and those who are hungry for positive emotions.

But when it comes to beautiful, sought-after girls, even if you are a real ringleader, without some big worthy goal in life, you will not fit the role of their man.

How can she show her potential?

It is enough to really achieve your own goals and occasionally talk about the process of achieving it as if “in between,” weaving it all into interesting stories.

• Don't overestimate its importance

This is the most important advice in seducing not only beautiful, but also ordinary girls.

If you consider her very valuable, always listen to her wishes in everything, try to please, then she will feel this attitude and... refuse you. Why? The reason is that if you overestimate its importance to yourself, then it is not attractive.

Moreover, I’m not telling you that you should artificially reduce its importance (as some pick-up artists advise), looking for shortcomings. It is enough to remember that she should try as hard to earn your favor as you do. You just take the first step. :)

I'm not talking about such components as confidence and a sense of humor, since these qualities are important when communicating with any girl.

You can make models, high-status girls, and simply beautiful girls fall in love with you only if you follow each of the above rules of conduct. And if you want to be very beautiful, then try to make these “strategies” natural behavior. Part of the real you.

You will find a list of them at the bottom of the page.

Getting a girl to like you is not so easy; it will take some time, effort and, of course, a lot of patience. If you like a girl, show her that you are a good guy too, try to win her sympathy. Keep in mind that for this there must be at least some kind of mutual warm relationship. Because winning the sympathy of a girl you barely know is very difficult. But you can improve your chances if you try to win her attention, show yourself with the best side and ask her out on a date.

Steps

Part 1

Make her notice you

Do not hurry. Before you start chasing a girl around, remember that this is not a good idea. If you rush too much, she may suddenly lose interest in you. Even if you really really like this girl, take your time, especially if you just met recently. Try to make friends first and get to know her better.

• Never confess your love to a girl if you have not yet been on a date with her. First you need to ask her out on a date (maybe even more than one!)

1. Find a reason to talk to her. For a girl to notice you, you need to take the first step. To start a conversation, you don’t have to look for some serious reason, you just need to find some excuse. After you talk the first time, the next time it won't be as difficult.

   • Try saying something like, “Hey, do you happen to remember what we were asked?” or “Can you please pass such and such?”

2. Compliment her. Sincere compliments and signs of attention are a great way to show a girl that she will be comfortable with you. Admire her appearance, intelligence, character, abilities and so on.

   • For example, you could say, “Oh, you are such a wonderful artist! You really have talent!” or “Most people are bad at math. It’s great that you understand such a complex subject.”

3. Listen to her. Be a good listener. This is especially important if you want a girl to fall in love with you. To show that you are listening carefully, maintain eye contact and say neutral phrases such as “Yes,” “I understand,” “And what happened next?” Make sure you can repeat everything she said.

   Show her that you are special. A girl might be interested in your unique qualities. Think about your best character traits and how to show them off. For example, if you are an athlete, invite her to a game. If you play guitar in a band, invite her to your concert. If you love to read, start an intellectual conversation about literature.

   Support and praise her. Show your support and convince her that you are worthy of her love. Take these small steps before asking a girl out.

   • For example, at one of your games you can pick her up, help her with an exam, help her get a job, and so on. Think about what other little things you can do to show her your love or affection.

4. Be polite and attentive. Some girls like "bad boys", but over time they want to date an attentive and caring young man. You need to demonstrate these qualities before the first date. To do this, show that you are familiar with good manners, etiquette, open doors for her, be kind to others.

Part 3

Ask her out on a date

Ask her out on a date. To take your relationship to the next level, ask her out. The invitation should sound so that she agrees. Try something like:

• “Listen, I have an extra ticket to such and such movie (the movie she wants to go to) on Friday night. You are free?"
• “I don’t know if you want to go, but I often go to the central fair to unwind. Do you want to go with me?
• “Listen, there’s a little match coming up soon. Maybe we can go and cheer for another team?”

1. Make a date plan. You can invite her on a date as if it were a regular event, or you can arrange a real date that she will remember for a long time! Think about what you know about her and her preferences. You can even somehow unobtrusively find out what she likes. She will appreciate your care and originality.

   On a date, be attentive to her. Show that her comfort and pleasure come first for you, then she will most likely not mind continuing the relationship. There are several ways to show you care.

   • For example, if you think she is cold outside, invite her to sit in a cafe to warm up and have a snack. If the waiter forgot to bring her a drink or cutlery, take care of it by asking the waiter to bring the cutlery or handle it yourself.

2. Let her understand how you feel. After a few dates, she will be convinced that you enjoy spending time with her. She may feel reciprocal sympathy. But the moment will come when you need to talk about your feelings.

   Keep meeting, going out and getting to know each other. It takes a lot of time and effort to make a girl fall in love with you. Even if the first date was amazing, she's unlikely to fall in love with you right away. Continue to surprise her, organize interesting dates and enjoy the process of getting to know each other. Relationships will flourish if you take your time and let things take their course.

The fight for a woman's heart is comparable to a theatrical performance. Properly chosen makeup, music, actors and the play itself make the audience tremble with delight. As soon as the theater characters forget the words, the hall is filled with indignant exclamations.

Dating a woman is a properly played play, the end result of which should be applause, and not angry demands for a refund of the ticket fee. How to make a girl fall in love with you and play your male role according to all the rules?

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Classmates

When it comes to seducing women, experience is not the most important thing. The first thing you should think about before approaching the person you like is appearance.

A girl may not pay attention to the high cost of clothes, but she will appreciate cleanliness and tidiness first of all. The basic rules of a male pickup, for those who do not know how to make a girl fall in love with you, can be presented as follows:

A gaze and nothing more

All women love attention. If a girl notices that a young man is watching her, she will probably turn around to do the same. The main thing in all this is not to lose eye contact. The girl should understand that they are interested in her not in order to come up and ask for directions, but for a specific romantic purpose. If the girl looked away first, then the man can celebrate a small victory.

“A smile will make the world brighter”

Nobody likes gloomy, withdrawn people; women try to avoid such individuals. If a man is not having a good day and he cannot squeeze out anything other than a wry smile, the acquaintance is obviously doomed to failure. Having noticed a girl he likes in the crowd, a man should smile at her. If she smiles back, you can approach and try to get acquainted.

"Night, street, lantern, pharmacy"

Psychologists say that you can meet people anywhere, be it a chic cafe or a bus stop. The main condition is the right time. If a girl returns home alone late in the evening, then making acquaintance with her will not be the best best idea: Most likely, she will get scared and try to get rid of the random travel companion.

When meeting people, it is best to keep your distance. A distance of 1 meter must be maintained between a girl and a man. Otherwise, a new acquaintance may consider the attention shown to her too intrusive.

Pleasant conversations and compliments

After practicing staring and smiling and approaching the girl, the man should strike up a pleasant conversation. It’s better to start it with a banal compliment. You can praise beautiful hairstyle, manicure, dress, say that the man was delighted with her gait, smile, laughter.

The conversation should be simple, you should not move on to academic topics and be interested in a new friend’s degree of mastery of Gauss’s theorem. It’s better to talk about the weather, the surrounding architecture, the latest films and theaters, the taste characteristics of the baked goods served in the nearest cafe.

Contacts

You shouldn’t immediately attack the girl and demand that she give you her phone number. This option is suitable for ending an unexpected date. If the man has made the right impression, the girl will easily agree to give him her number. If not, you can try to find out her profile from social networks and try to continue communication on the Internet.

Women love confident men, so if a young man mumbles and doesn’t know what to say at the first contact, his chances of continuing are minimal. If you want to attract the attention of the girl you like, you can buy a ball or a rose, go up to her and simply give it to her. An accepted gift will be the first step towards further acquaintance.

How to make a girl fall in love with you?

Many guys spend a lot of time thinking about how to make a girl fall in love with them. However, they do not understand that the main problem is not how to do it, but why. If you seriously like a girl and a man plans to build a strong, long-term relationship with her, then it will be easier to make her fall in love with him than the one with whom you plan to spend several weeks or even days. Most often, women sense men's intentions and act accordingly.

It's easy to get acquainted by correspondence, but making a girl fall in love with you is not easy. To begin with, you should “overwhelm” her with beautiful compliments, electronic gifts, and possibly poems.

If she makes contact, you can praise her photos and ask about the places where they were taken. The main thing in this matter is perseverance and a clear manifestation of interest in the female person.

To arouse interest, a man must find out about her favorite books, films and performers. It is important to show the girl how attentive, educated and ready to immediately respond to any of her messages.

If she doesn't like you

Men who have problems building relationships often wonder how to make a girl fall in love with you if she doesn’t like you? Representatives of the stronger half of humanity are literally unsettled by this state of affairs, but they should not despair.

It is necessary to understand what exactly the girl does not like about a particular person. This can be both external data (height, weight, eye color, hair color, nose shape, etc.) and character traits. It is unlikely that it will be possible to correct external data, but a man is quite capable of changing his own behavior and character.

Thus, a gloomy person may try to learn a few jokes, invite a girl to ride a carousel, or spend an evening at the cinema watching a comedy. If a girl doesn’t like her partner’s excessive stinginess, then you can try to look more generous than usual.

If she has a boyfriend

There is an opinion that a guy is not a husband yet, and therefore you shouldn’t even worry about how to make a girl fall in love with you if she has a boyfriend. In reality this is not the case. Most representatives of the fair sex are already quite faithful at this stage of the relationship. The main task is to show the girl your best qualities, make her understand that the young man she has chosen is not a suitable candidate.

To do this you should give best gifts, show maximum attention, accompany you from university (from work), regularly invite you on dates. If the one with whom the chosen one meets on this period time, she doesn’t really like her, then after a while she will pay attention to such obvious signs favor from a new fan.

If she loves someone else

The question of how to make a girl fall in love with you if she loves someone else is the most painful one. In principle, it is useless to look for an answer to it, since in most cases it is impossible.

If a girl is truly in love, she perceives the men around her only as friends.

A new fan has practically no chance, but you can try: real feelings are worth fighting for.

Top 10 methods that work flawlessly

Summarizing everything that was said above about how to make a girl fall in love with you, let's look at 10 methods that work flawlessly:

1. Jokes and humor. Women highly value men who can make them laugh. Such a man is easy to love, easy to fall in love with. It is necessary to joke more, and not be shy about the comical situations that a couple may find themselves in.
2. Find out everything about what a girl loves. Men don’t like to go shopping with their girlfriends, but the life of most women is not limited to shopping. Many girls are involved in active sports, enjoy dancing, embroidering, reading books, and working at jobs that they love and that are interesting. A man must make sure that his interests coincide as closely as possible with the girl’s interests. To do this, it is not at all necessary to run to the gym or buy embroidered paintings; it is enough to find out more information about what a woman does and, if necessary, support her in new endeavors.
3. Listen to a girl. If a man does not know how to listen and hear, win a heart beautiful lady it will be difficult for him. Listen carefully to everything the girl talks about, even if you are not interested.
4. Support. Despite the significant percentage of feminists present in society, most girls still count on a strong male shoulder. At the same time, support does not have to be material; simple sympathy is quite enough. So, if a girl had a fight with her parents, friends, bosses and is looking for consolation, you should not talk about the degree of her guilt, future problems, and the like. She must understand that the man will choose her side in any case.
5. Trust. Without trust there is no love, therefore if a man cannot win over a woman in such a way that she trusts him, he will not be able to make her fall in love with him.
6. Constantly praise your taste in clothes and cosmetics. Girls love attention, so a man should periodically praise the next fashionable bag or dress, talk about the beauty of makeup, etc.
7. Sweets. If a woman cooks well, her chances of winning a man double. A man can also use this trick, but he does not need to cook for this. It is enough to give the chosen one her favorite sweets.
8. Flowers. Women love flowers, the more the better.
9. Memorable dates. When planning to make a girl fall in love with you, you should not forget about memorable dates - the first kiss, the first date, the beginning life together and so on.
10. Pleasant surprises. Not all women like surprises, but everyone can appreciate a truly beautiful gesture. Naturally, having bought tickets for the next flight to Paris, provided the girl is extremely busy at work, or has an exam coming up tomorrow, the man will not win at all in her eyes. But an unexpected gift of earrings, a trip to the cinema, or a picnic will be greatly appreciated.

The main thing to remember for those who plan to follow the methods presented above is that women love to be wooed, surprised and indulged in most whims.

Psychological techniques

Girls don’t like guys who are overly correct, so a man shouldn’t talk about being faithful to her alone on the first date, report back, talk about everything that happened to him that day.

A girl should feel like a woman, and not a mother lavishing praise for good behavior. If a man doesn’t know how to make a girl fall in love with him, the psychological techniques described below can become a real guide to action for him.

So, what you need to know about women:

• girls love to be looked at and admired, so the main thing is eye contact;
• a girl who is not deprived of the attention of men ignores the views of her next boyfriend (for her he is only one of many), the latter needs to act directly opposite to the others, not paying any attention to the object of passion;
• if a girl is bored with flowers and gifts and she begins to take them for granted, it is necessary to abruptly stop courtship, she will become worried and in the future she will look for reasons for meetings;
• a girl will never fall in love with someone who compares her to other women, so by doing this a man can lose his beloved forever.

When meeting and further meetings, you should carefully monitor her reaction to touch. If a girl does not immediately strive to move away from a man whose hand accidentally touched her shoulder or hair, then he is already halfway to her heart.

Touches, even accidental ones, are extremely important: they show the degree of readiness for further rapprochement. If this did not help and the man still has no idea how to make a girl fall in love with him, psychology will not help here; it is necessary to study the specific situation from the inside and understand the reason for the failure. Perhaps it is due to the fact that the girl is already in love, but is hiding it, or her reaction is related to the zodiac sign under which she was born.

Finding out that a girl is in love with a specific man is easy. As mentioned above, she stops noticing the signs of attention paid to her by others. In addition, a woman in love forgives a lot and is ready to help her chosen one in any of his endeavors. She is not interested in the opinions of others and even close relatives. She does not allow anyone to speak badly about her lover.

Having achieved an understanding of how to make any girl fall in love with them, representatives of the stronger sex begin to have difficulty understanding why their chosen one prefers to hide her feelings. There are several reasons for this:

• the girl has not understood herself, confuses friendship with love and vice versa;
• she does not trust her chosen one, she is afraid of deception;
• she is afraid of the judgment of others;
• the woman does not know that her feelings are mutual and therefore hides them, fearing to look stupid.

Understanding that a girl is hiding her love is not easy, but you can still try. To begin with, it is worth observing her reaction to other representatives of the fairer sex who surround the man. As a rule, it is negative.

Many women give themselves away by unknowingly taking care of their lover - preparing their favorite dishes, gifts for dates that the man himself does not remember, selfless help in business. In any case, a man must take the first step himself and admit his feelings.

Is it possible to charm an ex-girlfriend again (and is it necessary)?

After a serious quarrel that caused a breakup, some men are worried about the question of how to make a girl fall in love with him again, how to make her fall in love with herself ex-girlfriend, wife, girlfriend, is it worth doing this. The answer to the question depends on the situation that provoked the separation.

In most cases, there are no hopeless options, but it is unlikely that a girl will return to a guy who treated her cruelly, called her hurtful names and constantly cheated on her. If the quarrel was caused by an attack of jealousy, was of a domestic nature, or was provoked by the surrounding situation, then the relationship can be restored by repeating a number of points described above.

By entering into an already broken relationship, a man risks encountering previously existing and unresolved problems. Before seeking the favor of your ex, you need to carefully weigh all the pros and cons.

How to behave with representatives of different zodiac signs?

The nature of the relationships being built largely depends on the zodiac sign. Thus, some representatives of the zodiac wheel are easy to fall in love with, while others do not succumb to temptation for a long period of time, surrendering to the mercy of the winner only after being convinced of the authenticity of his feelings.

Aries

An Aries woman will not tolerate a sluggish and not energetic man next to her, therefore, before deciding how to make an Aries girl fall in love with him, a guy must evaluate his intellectual and social skills. Aries like to joke, are not touchy, can provoke an argument, and prefer people who speak directly about their intentions.

Taurus

The Taurus woman cannot stand talkers. Not knowing how to make a Taurus girl fall in love with him, a man must think about whether he is ready to silently give in to disputes that arise during the relationship. Taurus are extremely stubborn, they know exactly who they need, the choice of the chosen one is always done consciously, in most cases, based on careful calculation.

Twins

Geminis love witty interlocutors, so there won’t be any particular difficulties in making a Gemini girl fall in love with you. It’s a pleasure to spend time with representatives of this sign; they are ready to support any conversation.

How does a girl under the sign of Gemini love?

Cancer

Cancers are cheerful, but extremely stubborn, so it can be difficult to make a Cancer girl fall in love with you. Sincerity can help in this difficult matter. A man should not hide the emotions that surround him, and then he will be able to win the heart of a Cancer woman.

a lion

Leos are headstrong and impatient, they prefer to dominate in relationships, so a man who is thinking about how to make a Leo girl fall in love with him will have quite a hard time. Success will depend on his ability to flatter and give compliments. Leo girls love to be put on a pedestal.

Virgo

Virgos prefer a business approach in everything, including relationships. A man who decides to devote some time to how to make a Virgo girl fall in love with him will have to carefully monitor all the words spoken in her presence. Virgo remembers all the promises and will quote verbatim the conversation that took place 1 year ago.

Scales

Libras love to chat, and it doesn’t matter what, it’s important how. They are refined natures, therefore a man who plans to win her hearts and does not know how to make a Libra girl fall in love with him must learn the art of conducting a salon conversation and be competent in all topics that interest his chosen one.

How a girl born under the sign of Libra loves

Sagittarius

Sagittarians love to teach, so in a conversation with them there is always an edifying and authoritative tone. A guy who doesn't know how to make a Sagittarius girl fall in love with him should practice philosophical conversations. At the same time, there is no point in talking about feelings and romance; Sagittarians do not like this. Just like conversations about home, work, everyday problems.

Scorpion

Scorpio cares about emotions. A man should not think too long about how to make a Scorpio girl fall in love with him; he just needs to show his true feelings. This must be done carefully, since Scorpios are excellent manipulators.

Capricorn

Capricorns prefer to keep their distance from unfamiliar people, so a guy trying to figure out how to make a Capricorn girl fall in love with him must prepare for a long siege.

How does a girl born under the sign of Capricorn love?

Aquarius

One of the easiest zodiac signs to communicate and make new acquaintances. There shouldn’t be any difficulties with how to make an Aquarius girl fall in love with you. Representatives of this sign like well-educated men with a strong sense of humor. It is better to talk about abstract topics, preferably avoiding questions about career, life, home, money.

Fish

Quite an impressionable zodiac sign. A guy who doesn’t know how to make a Pisces girl fall in love with him should stock up exclusively positive emotions and news. Pisces are touchy and easily upset. You should talk to them exclusively about cinema, art, literature, and pets.

Useful video

There are many ways to make a girl fall in love with you. If one method doesn't work, then try another. The video below shows 12 questions that will make a girl fall in love with you:

Conclusion

Not knowing how to make a girl fall in love with him again, or simply fearing new acquaintances, men experience a lot of emotional troubles.

It is important to understand that women differ from the representatives of the stronger half of humanity in physiological terms, but still remain people who value, first of all, attention and care.

If a man gifts a girl with expensive things, but is not ready to sit by her bedside during her illness, then he will definitely not be able to make her fall in love with him.

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Do you have to suffer every day, watching the love of your life surrounded by crowds of fans, and knowing that only you truly love her? Jealousy, hatred and a sense of loss are all the feelings that fill you now. But all you have to do is win her heart.

Steps

Start

Don't rush things. Let the relationship develop gradually. She may be frightened by your excessive pressure. Gradually, your feelings for her will intensify and develop, as will your relationship.

Be brave. Most girls like men who are confident, but not selfish. Just walk up to her and start a simple conversation. She will understand that they are interested in her. Start with some simple phrase:

• "You're wearing this Nice dress. Did you sew it yourself?”
• “Sorry, I'm new here. Can you tell me where the library is?”
• "Hi, my name is [your name]. I think you're a great conversationalist. Can I steal a few minutes of your time?"

1. Chat with other girls. This is not the same as flirting with other girls, which would be inappropriate in our situation. If you communicate with other girls, your chosen one will understand that they trust you, consider you a reliable friend, and that you are easy to communicate with. If you get other girls to say nice things about you, then that's another big step.

   • Make friends with her friends, it's not that hard. We know it can be difficult, but just try. If her friends like you, you will have a better chance of winning her over too. After all, girls often consult with their friends. Make sure they have a good impression of you.

2. Always look after yourself. Women love the smell of clean and neat clothes! This means that if a man takes care of himself, then she will like him. Conversely, poor hygiene can ruin all your plans. Believe it or not, fresh, clean-smelling hair is a big plus. And the smell of a clean body is a must for every guy. Here are three tips to help improve your hygiene:

   If possible make a girl laugh, then you will have a much better chance. But don't overdo it. Let her become your best friend first, and then engage in battle. It's important for a girl to know that she can trust you, that you won't break her heart because you actually care about her. Girls love to laugh and will laugh at all jokes, even if they are not funny.

   Be sincere. Compliments, flirting, jokes, caring - none of this will matter if you are insincere. If you decide to give a girl a compliment, think about what you like about her, gather your courage and tell her, just tell the truth.

   • It's okay if you don't agree with her, just don't put pressure on her, respect her opinion and give reasons why you don't agree with her. Who knows, maybe she will start to respect you more, because this way you will show that you have your own opinion.

3. Prove that you really like her. Show her that you're not just attracted to her or want to get her into bed. Ask her to talk about herself, talk to her. Don't just expect kisses. Listen to her and look her in the eyes.

   Compliment her. It’s hard to please girls with compliments: everyone wants to feel confident, but it’s very difficult to choose Right words. Moreover, a little kind words will help you pave the way to the future. Pay attention to these tips when you're ready to show her that you're more than just a friend:

   • Find out who she feels like. If she has a sporty spirit, encourage her to strive for victory and play sports. If your chosen one is a thinker, praise her for her smart thoughts. Whatever she thinks about herself, praise her for the things she likes most about herself.
   • Try to give more compliments about her character. There is no need to constantly talk about her external beauty; All girls like to feel beautiful, but it is also important for them to be valued for their intelligence and character. If you want to compliment her appearance, pay attention to:
     • smile;
     • hairstyle;
     • eyes;
     • lips;
     • clothes;
     • style.
   • Try these compliments. These are just sketches, so come up with more suitable ones for your situation and your girl.
     • “Sorry, I’m embarrassed, but I always get nervous around pretty girls.”
     • “They probably tell you this a lot, but I like the way you think.”
     • “I love the way the color of your eyes matches your dress. Do your parents have blue eyes too?

   Let's get to know her better

   1. Remember the color of her eyes. This can be easily done by looking into her eyes as often as possible while you are talking.

      Flirt with her. You've probably already started flirting with her, complimenting her and just talking to her. It's time to take things to the next level and show her what you want.

      Don't play games. This way you will only waste time, and the relationship will go nowhere. If you try to start a relationship with a lie (for example, by saying that you just ended a long-term relationship, but in fact you did not have any girlfriend), then most likely everything will end in tears. If you see that a girl is looking for one thing in a relationship, and you are looking for something completely different, there is no need to delay. Tell her what you're looking for and explain what's really important to you.

      • Don't play hard to get unless you're sure it will work. Believe it or not, some guys try to look unapproachable. And in most cases, girls take this behavior for indifference.

   2. Be a reliable friend. Most girls want to trust someone and know that they will be supported in Hard time. Even if she's doing well, let her know you're wondering how her day was. If you know she has plans after work or school, ask her how it went. If you let her know that you like her, she will understand all the hints. You don't even need to say it directly.

      • If you talk about your plans, do what you say. If you just talk, you won't be trusted. Girls (and guys) don't like it when people talk a lot but never keep their promises. Don't be like that.
      • Monitor your reputation. Try to be the guy she would want to date. This means:
        • Treat girls well and don't offend them.
        • Have friends who will support you in difficult times.
        • To be someone everyone loves and respects.

   3. Offer her your jacket if she's cold. You'll make an even bigger impression if you take the jacket off and throw it over your shoulders, first making sure the jacket is clean and smells good. By doing this you will show her that you care about her. She will feel safe.

      Take an interest in her mood. Ask her how her day was. This is an easy way to show her that you are interested in what she does and that you care about her. When she starts talking, your full attention should be on her. Look into her eyes. Most importantly, don't interrupt. Ask questions to show her that you are listening and speak your mind.

   Time for decisive action

   Share your emotions. If she gets an excellent grade on her test, rejoice together! If she's having a bad day, let her know that you understand how bad she is and want her to feel better. Ask her if there is anything you can do to help or calm her down.

   Love her weirdness. No one is perfect, but if you see too many flaws, we have a problem. You must love her for her features, for her uniqueness. Tell her about it.

   • If she is not sure about something, this is exactly the moment when the girl should be encouraged. Say something like, “I love your freckles. They highlight your beauty." Simple words like these will cheer her up and show her that you like her for who she is.
   • Be especially careful if she is not very confident. Most girls (and guys) are not completely confident in their character or appearance. The better you get to know her, the more you will learn about her fears. Don't draw attention to them, talk more often about its merits.

   1. Make her feel the most beautiful. You can say so directly. Girls love compliments and hear that they are beautiful, but do not overdo it, especially if you have only recently met. Just saying something like, “You look good today” more often will cheer her up. But say this only sincerely. If you are deceitful, she will no longer trust your opinion in other matters.

      Develop your communication skills. Tell us about everyone interesting things that come to mind, or share the story of your friends. You've probably already asked her a ton of questions, but she probably doesn't know a lot about you. Tell her about what you can easily talk about, and maybe even about what you have always been embarrassed to say.

      • If she tells you about her weaknesses, don't be afraid to show her your weaknesses.
      • Put yourself in her shoes. What does she like to talk about? How does she react to criticism? How is she different from other girls? What is she proud of? Answer these questions from her point of view.

   2. Ask her out if you haven't already. Getting into the dating stage will be the hardest part of the plan. If you go on a few dates, you will very quickly figure out if she really is the girl of your dreams. But deciding on an invitation is not so easy. Luckily, you are confident, calm, and have a plan:

      • You don't have to say it's a date. It may make you both feel awkward if you call it a date. Instead, say something like, “I have two tickets to that new movie on Saturday, but my friend is sick. Would you like to come with me?
      • Increase your chances of a successful date by thinking of something exciting, something that will get her heart rate up. It could be a panic room or an amusement park with slides, or a horror movie. Exciting dates like these will make you feel like you've experienced something together and help you create a special bond.
      • Be a gentleman. Open doors for her, pay for lunch, and don't expect her to kiss you on the first date. Let everything take its course and she will be comfortable. If she feels calm, she will melt in your arms.

   3. Always let her know that you love her. Love her for who she is. And show it. This is the most important step. If she knows that you love her, she will try for the relationship.

   • Be honest.
   • If a girl takes you away from your friends to a quiet place, she most likely wants to ask you out on a date. But there is still a chance that she will ask a completely different question.
   • When you talk to her, look at her lips, then at her eyes, then at her lips again (when she speaks). Subconsciously she will want to kiss you.
   • Be confident. Walk, talk and act with confidence. Be a leader. Become her protector.
   • Don't be too pushy. Let her call or text first sometimes (but still send her a text every now and then to show her you're thinking about her without going overboard).
   • If you like her, wait for her. Every ending is the beginning of something new and a new opportunity for you; but if you really like her, you'll wait for her.
   • Respect her. First of all. She is special and unique. Even if your best friend hurts her, don't tolerate it. After all, you love her, don't you?
   • Flirt with her. Tease her a little, and when she responds in kind, respond with a joke. It is very funny. However, girls are touchy-feely, so make sure you don't offend her and let her have the last word.
   • Talk to her politely, especially if you are arguing. Be a calm man; this will become your best feature.
   • Be interesting. Always speak cheerfully and energetically, regardless of the topic. Never look down when talking to her. Even if you feel sad, still show your excitement.
   • Sometimes indirect communication methods (like texting) can create a sense of mystery and intrigue, but nothing beats face-to-face communication. May you have more such communication.
   • Don't be petty. Don't complain about everything.
   • The first step doesn't always work, but it can help if you know her well enough. Wait for the right moment, for example, if she is upset, or say something nice if she is scared.
   • If you're trying to win over a girl you barely know, you'll of course need to develop your relationship gradually. If you want to immediately become a friend or soul mate from an acquaintance, then most likely you will earn yourself the reputation of being clingy.
   • If she makes the first move, react and flirt with her.
   • If you're asking her out for the first time, give her a red rose.
   • Be persistent and let everything be as natural as possible. Be calm in any situation. Even if she gets a boyfriend, they won't date for long if you're better than him. Be faithful. The test of time will show who has always been there for her.
   • Transitioning to conversations about serious topics can be difficult. It will be awkward if you force things, so be patient. The best way Moving forward in a relationship doesn't always mean making her the center of your attention. For example, go hiking with friends, do anything together to get to know her better. You can bring a friend to the meeting to feel more confident.
   • Get closer and talk to her relative. Create a good impression of yourself, and let her hear only pleasant things about you next time.
   • Make sure you have fun together. Relax and enjoy communicating with her. The worst thing is to watch a couple in which the guy is trying to make the girl laugh, and it looks unnatural.
   • Knights exist! Open the doors. Help her wash the dishes. Take out the trash when you visit her. She'll love it! This way you will be able to win her heart.
   • Don't be afraid to talk about your feelings. She will see that you are not shy about her.

   Warnings

   • Never talk about her behind her back because she will find out about it!
   • Don't cheat on her. You could lose her forever and break her heart.
   • Never start a relationship with new girl immediately after the breakup. If you've recently broken up, don't jump into a new relationship right away, or she'll think you never loved her.
   • Don't worry if none of these tips helped you. If you have feelings and you love her, everything will be okay.
   • Don't spend your whole life on one girl unless you're sure you'll be happy in your marriage or relationship. Always remember that you can get burned.
   • If she says no, stop any attempts to win her over. No means no.

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How to win a girl? This question worries many guys who are ready to take the decisive step towards love. All girls are quite different, with different thoughts, desires and requirements. Therefore, for many guys, how to win a girl’s attention seems like an insoluble question. However, there are still rules, following which will help you win a girl’s attention.

The perfect way to win a girl is to be faithful and justify her trust all the time. Keeping secrets and saying words that other people shouldn't hear. Girls often complain that guys discuss their relationships with their friends and colleagues and listen to the advice of strangers. Therefore, none of the friends or other individuals should interfere in the relationship and give advice on what to do. Representatives of the fair sex really appreciate this attitude towards them and in this way, they can be more easily conquered, the main thing is to do it sincerely.

This is only one of the secrets of how to win the attention of a girl; further on other methods will be given with the help of which even the most insecure guy can soon win the attention and trust of the girl he likes.

How to win a girl's trust

To win a girl you must be sincere. To gain trust, you must always be honest. This applies not only to actions and words, but also to your own thoughts and feelings.

Representatives of the fair sex, due to their sensitive nature, can feel how sincerely young people behave with them. They want a guy to show his feelings even when he is irritated or angry, and also sincerely rejoice and be happy. This is how sincere feelings are manifested for them, without falsehood.

To win a girl you need to be yourself. You can’t show it in a relationship, because as a result of one evil word or wrong deed, the entire process of conquest will come to naught, and it will be very difficult to gain trust. It is necessary to restrain your impulses, otherwise the relationship will not work out properly at all. Violence or simply makes a relationship unhealthy, so before you win a girl, you need to work on your and.

To win your heart and trust, you need to have knowledge about your chosen one. It is important not just to observe her external beauty, but also to find out the contents of her inner world. To do this, you need to listen carefully to everything the girl says, ask her about her interests, understand what she likes and what she hates. Such knowledge will help you win your chosen one.

To gain a girl's trust, you need to become her friend. Girls love young men with whom they have something to talk about, because they want to date a man to whom they can tell something secret that they don’t even tell their friends.

You don’t have to conquer a girl with just one, you can even listen to her silently and periodically keep up the conversation. This way to win a girl, and most importantly her trust, is very effective. She sees that the guy is not talkative, but attentive, and this fascinates her, thanks to which they become at least good friends.

To win a girl's heart, you should show nobility and generosity. Girls appreciate a guy who is not greedy. To do this, you don’t have to be very rich, it’s enough just to show that he doesn’t feel sorry for anything. Because it's too expensive gifts can be interpreted by a girl as a way to buy her love, which will cause distrust and winning her will not be so easy.

Girls like it when people do things for them or arrange pleasant surprises. For example, an unplanned romantic meeting or help in a difficult situation. They appreciate this as a sign of attention and are sincerely happy, so they can be more easily won over.

How to win a girl's love

To succeed in winning a girl's attention, you need to be attentive to everything she does. You can find out almost everything by asking what a girl does in her free time.

To win her heart, you need to be persistent in your courtship. She may not reciprocate the first time, but this is only to seem unavailable, but in fact she wants to be pursued. To win a girl, they can approach various techniques: flowers, bouquets, singing, a poem, or a guy can show his imagination and come up with something more original.

In order to win a young lady, it is important to show originality in actions and show the originality of your personality, emphasizing your personal merits. This could be singing, cooking, growing plants and flowers.

To win female attention, you need to think about all your steps so as not to make mistakes. Representatives of the female part of the population love it when men act meaningfully and keep their word.

In relationships, particularly in courtship, you need to be honest. This is one of the basic rules. Insincerity and lies are detected almost immediately, after which it will not be easy to win the girl again.

Strong-willed decisions, firmness and noble male strength are a way to win a girl and achieve her favor. The main thing is, after you manage to win a girl, remain the same person with whom she fell in love.

Especially important point how to win a woman's attention is appearance men. It is necessary to be neat, wear clean, ironed clothes, take care of personal hygiene, and use only pleasant and light perfume.

How to win a girl's attention? Great way winning a girl and winning her heart means a sense of humor and optimism. Optimism, wit, a sincere smile and an infectious laugh are the qualities that attract everyone.

When to a neat spring look young man an excellent sense of humor is added - this increases charm and increases the percentage of opportunities to win a girl’s heart. With a sense of humor you also need to be careful and understand where the line is, going beyond which you can seem like a clown.

It happens that young people quarrel with each other and break up, but when their emotions calm down, each of them internally regrets it, but does not dare to take a step forward. Girls show off their feelings by pretending like they don't care, when in fact they want to get back into the relationship. Men are often more proactive, so they begin to look for opportunities to win over their ex-girlfriend.

Some people take the wrong position when they try to remind them of themselves immediately after a quarrel, believing that otherwise they will be forgotten, which will irritate the girl even more. We need to step aside for a while. This is necessary so that emotions subside and memories begin to emerge in your thoughts. It doesn’t matter what the quarrel was about, what’s important is that the wonderful memories of the moments spent together remain fresh in your memory. When this happens, willy-nilly everyone wants to continue the relationship so that even more such pleasant, memorable moments happen.

If you really want to win back and win a girl again, then before you think about how to win your ex-girlfriend, you should understand yourself well. The young man must ask himself: “Perhaps I want to return her because she hurt my pride by dumping me first?” or “Am I just afraid of loneliness? Perhaps this is a habit, and not love at all? In all of the above cases, you should understand that this is a matter of personal problems, not relationships, and you need to work on your difficulties.

If a young man realizes that he has missed a lot loved one, then he really needs to think about how to win over his ex-girlfriend, and for this he needs to be patient and start acting slowly.

There is no need to be jealous and there is no need to give reasons for it. Even if a girl has someone, this does not mean that they will have something serious, since you were in a couple for a long time, for which they managed to become well attached and become close people.

In most cases, representatives of the fair sex do this in order to make them jealous. In this case, it should be understood that such relationships are not serious and end with. It is very rare for such relationships to last. In this case, you need to think about whether she cheated with this guy before, and how strong her love for her ex was if she found a replacement for him and does not want to return.

The moment a representative of the fair sex begins to have difficulties and quarrels with her new boyfriend, she begins to mentally return to the fact that her ex was better. This point is very important, because by showing jealousy, you can immediately reduce all your advantages to zero and lose the moment.

A guy can show that he is interested in women, for example, by talking to a work colleague or neighbor, but not get too involved in this matter. Otherwise, the woman will consider her ex a completely unworthy person who communicates with many. But if everything is done right, then she will become jealous and want to come back. In this way, it is easiest to win a girl’s heart again, since the feeling of competition in her is quite strong and will become a decisive factor.

If a guy doesn’t understand why his significant other left him, he should calmly sit down and remember what exactly she complained about and what she said in the quarrel. If the guy didn’t listen to her words before, now it’s time to listen to them and discuss together everything that worries him.

It happens that a woman herself can take the first step towards reconciliation. You should just wait for a while and not do anything or meet anyone else. A guy needs to be easily accessible and not show unnecessary initiative.

If the girl begins to show her attention and the guy feels a hint of contact, then you can open up. Now is the time to win her over again: tell her how much he regrets, apologize and promise to improve, show your readiness to work on yourself and on the relationship.

The guy must say that he is ready to build a qualitatively new relationship. After the conversation, he must understand that these should not be just empty words, since winning the girl’s attention and her trust should be done through actions.

Quite often, guys cannot find a soul mate, since all the good women are already taken, then they begin to wonder how to win a girl who has a boyfriend. The one who has the information will have the advantage. You should make inquiries about your opponent to understand which guys the girl prefers. By carefully observing a guy, you can highlight his shortcomings and turn them into your advantages. For example, he is greedy, never has time, does not like nature or neglects the needs of a girl - knowledge about these subtleties can only play into his hands, if only in order not to repeat the mistakes of his opponent and thus win the chosen one.

To succeed in how to win a girl who has a boyfriend, you need to study her preferences. Sincere interest in her favorite activities will make it possible to maintain relaxed communication and be pleasant to her. An ideal acquaintance should take place exactly in the place where a girl without a boyfriend spends her free time. It could be a gym, a store, a library or a beauty salon, the main thing is that the guy can also go there, to, as it were, suddenly meet a girl and get to know her. If he says that he came to this place for the first time, and he likes it, then the conversation will start on its own. From this moment you can begin an unobtrusive friendship.

It is very important, before winning a girl who has a boyfriend, to find out whether she loves him or is just used to him. This is very easy to determine, since a woman in love, in principle, will never meet other guys. The chosen one, who shows that she is not against getting to know each other, does not love her man and is looking for a replacement for him. You can ask how much her current chosen one corresponds to her ideal, and make for yourself from this useful conclusions.

It may be that the girl is now in a relationship with a guy, because at the moment he asked her to date, there was no one better, and against the background of the absolute absence of competitors, he looked quite decent and was able to easily win her. Over time, she got used to him, even if she didn’t even love him.

The appearance of a new candidate in her social circle may interest a girl, and she will involuntarily begin to notice that she often thinks about him. Over time, it will begin to seem to her that her current boyfriend is not as interesting as the new candidate, so there is a high percentage of the probability that she will break up with him.

When given a choice, it is not a fact that a representative of the fair sex will give preference to the current relationship. A guy can always compete with the current chosen one of the girl he likes. The main thing is that the lady herself is open to fighting for her love, then the best one can win her.

Speaker of the Medical and Psychological Center "PsychoMed"